Cyberbullying: A Perspective on Taking Control
Cyberbullying is often described as a pervasive and unavoidable consequence of the digital age. But does it truly hold the power we’ve given it, or is its grip on our lives a reflection of how much space we allow it to take up?
Here’s a provocative thought: I don’t believe in cyberbullying. Not in the same way I don’t believe in unicorns. Sure, they exist—both in stories we tell and the spaces we create—but they don’t have to hold any weight in our lives if we choose otherwise.
Taking Back the Narrative
If you’re facing cyberbullying, remember this: the internet is a platform where you hold the reins. Unlike real-life challenges—whether it’s dealing with demanding parents, tough bosses, or endless traffic—the online world offers tools to block, mute, and disconnect. Why let someone’s words ruin your day when you have the power to silence them?
Consider this a call to action:
Log Off: If the internet feels overwhelming, it’s okay to step away.
Use the Tools: Blocking and muting are your best friends. Most platforms offer robust options for curating your experience.
Redefine Your Space: Reclaim your digital presence by focusing on what inspires you and cutting out the noise.
A Shift in Perspective
Cyberbullying thrives on engagement. It feeds on the idea that online words have as much power as we give them. By stepping away, you’re not avoiding the problem; you’re redefining it. The beauty of the internet is that it’s entirely optional. You control how much of it you let into your world.
Life will always have unavoidable stressors—the things you can’t block, mute, or escape. But online? That’s your turf. So, take charge, set boundaries, and don’t let anyone take the joy out of your digital experience.
Because the best response to cyberbullying is reclaiming your power—and choosing not to engage.
Written by Dson